by Scott Carter | Jan 5, 2020 | Boundaries, Connections, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Relationships, Responsibility
I recently had a conversation about codependency with one of my clients. He brought it up and asked me directly about it, which some guys do from time to time. Sometimes men recognize that the dynamics in their relationship isn’t getting the results that they want and...
by Scott Carter | Oct 9, 2019 | Boundaries, Emotional Intelligence, Men's Issues, Relationships, Self-respect
I really believe that there is not enough discussion in psychology and behavior when it comes to power and the role of power in our lives and in our relationships. We all desire and crave power and control in our lives and sometimes over other people, some just act on...
by Scott Carter | Aug 12, 2019 | Boundaries, Men's Issues, Relationships, Self-respect
Every single nice guy will tell you that landing relationships with attractive women is a puzzle that they don’t know the solution for. Attractive women elude them almost like Bigfoot. The only thing they have to show after tromping around for days in the wilderness...
by Scott Carter | Jun 24, 2019 | Boundaries, Emotions, Empathy, Men's Issues, Relationships
What is your strategy for relationship success? I truthfully ask this question with a sense of irony because the vast majority of people would say, my strategy for what now? Here’s one of the bottom lines for life, successful people have strategies. There are...
by Scott Carter | May 26, 2019 | Boundaries, Self-respect, Values
Life has some unfortunate truths that we can’t sidestep. There are certain laws about success that are virtually impossible to get around. Life has winning strategies and it has losing strategies and if you want to win and if you want success you can do yourself a big...
by Scott Carter | May 13, 2019 | Boundaries, Connections, Emotional Intelligence, Men's Issues, Responsibility, Self-respect, Shame, Validation
It had to have been about a year and a half or so ago that I got into one of those stupid Facebook fights with some crazy social justice type. I take full accountability, I should have known better than to even get into it. I know I’m smarter than that, I have better...
